

The thing is, is that it sounds bad, difficult and hard and I guess it is but be it black wolves or black flags which I have fought with, fought under, nurtured, suckled and fed to a point where I knew no other way to be. Abuse survivor, ex-military, Metis struggling with ptsd, depression and anxiety. I wish that balance existed and maybe it does in people. Take care! 1 reply: Barb | Post Your Reply For there are times to talk and times to exit to go home. So then, I will talk to him at high noon, so our conversation would be short and the shadows would be short and talk where there is snow, so the shadows would be lighter. Therefore, perhaps Mr Graham actually heard the story and relayed it again as he wanted, perhaps the originator of the story was actually a Native man who decided to rely on a known predator friend, the white wolf, and really seeing on the ground the shadow recalling how the black wolf was there reflecting, so he decided to talk as the white wolf to Graham, looking all the time at his shadow and remembering, if I do not remember his black wolf, I would be devoured by him and his many shadows. I replied on the reflection of “Thos isn’t a Cherokee story.†Therefore, perhaps Mr Graham actually heard the story and relayed it again as he wanted, perhaps the originator of the story was actually a Native man who decided to rely on a known predator friend, the white wolf, and really seeing on the ground the shadow recalling how the black wolf was there reflecting, so he decided to talk as the white wolf to Graham, looking all the time at his shadow and remembering, if I do not remember his black wolf, I would. But the cost is in the eye of the beholder as two who would fight approach the each other. However the meaning might show itself, peace comes with a cost. While it is true others relay the story their own way or for fun a varied way, the meaning becomes hidden or is purposefully evading and another meaning shows clear. We do not know the complete thoughts and verbal meaning of the Native stories when only part of the story and part of an explanation. Starve one or the other or guide them both.” "How you choose to interact with the opposing forces within you will determine your life. A man or a woman who is pulled apart by the war inside him or her has nothing. A man or a woman who has peace inside has everything. Peace, my son, is the Cherokee mission in life. And when there is no battle inside, you can listen to the voices of deeper knowing that will guide you in choosing what is right in every circumstance. Feed them both and there will be no more internal struggle for your attention. To feed and care for both means they will serve you well and do nothing that is not a part of something greater, something good, something of life. To feed only one would starve the other and they will become uncontrollable. "You see, son, the white wolf needs the black wolf at his side. But the white wolf has compassion, caring, strength and the ability to recognize what is in the best interest of all. For the black wolf has many qualities – tenacity, courage, fearlessness, strong-willed and great strategic thinking – that I have need of at times and that the white wolf lacks. But if I acknowledge him, he is happy and the white wolf is happy and we all win. He will always be angry and always fighting the white wolf. “You see, if I only choose to feed the white wolf, the black one will be hiding around every corner waiting for me to become distracted or weak and jump to get the attention he craves.

The old Cherokee simply replied, “If you feed them right, they both win.” and the story goes on: In the Cherokee world, however, the story ends this way: You might heard the story ends like this: The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: “Which wolf will win?” The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.” One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy.”It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life:
